Doesn't mean you can let yourself go!!!! Have you heard this term? Duh, we all have! And fight it we will! Of course you should stay healthy and shiny and new for yourself (hopefully you weren't amazing just to corralle your man) but your partner appreciates it too. I am proud to say that I haven't changed a bit since I met Chris, in fact, I'm still running as much as I always have, and I've dragged him along for the ride! When we met, he couldn't/didn't want to run a mile, now he keeps up and passes me at times!
P.s-if you don't have this app yet, get it!! I used to laugh at the idea of toting a 'smart phone' with me when I'm doing physical activity..I mean, come on, it was my 'release' from everything. But...yup, there's that but, I have to say I get a kick out of it now! I also have one for skiing that tracks my speed which is a total thrill!